一对夫妻AA制57年，离婚后，两个人都去给法官送锦旗

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　　2020年，结婚57年，AA制57年，甚至连菜刀都要AA的天津八旬老夫妻，终于离婚了，刚离婚，他们就不约而同做了同一件事情。In 2020, after 57 years of marriage and splitting expenses equally for 57 years, an octogenarian couple from Tianjin who even split the cost of a kitchen knife, finally got divorced. Shortly after the divorce, they coincidentally did the same thing.

　　84岁高龄的马奶奶和86岁高龄的刘爷爷两人双双来到法院，要求结束他们57年的婚姻。The 84-year-old Grandma Ma and 86-year-old Grandpa Liu both appeared in court to request the end of their 57-year marriage.

　　马奶奶笑着说要去吃喜面，刘爷爷则一脸释然。当法官们打听他们离婚的原因时，这对老夫妻才娓娓道来，自己经历的婚姻生活有多么的“破烂不堪”。Grandma Ma smiled and said she wanted to go eat noodles to celebrate, while Grandpa Liu looked relieved. When the judges inquired about the reason for their divorce, the elderly couple slowly recounted the unbearable experiences they had in their marriage.

　　原来，马奶奶和刘爷爷虽然结婚多年，但感情早已不睦。两人经常大吵大闹，甚至动手打架，多次报警处理。It turns out that Grandma Ma and Grandpa Liu, despite being married for many years, had long been at odds with each other. They often had big fights, even physical altercations, and had called the police multiple times.

　　刘爷爷住大房，马奶奶住小房，已经分居了二十多年。他们之间明明白白要分得很清楚，家里的东西必须是你一份我一份，连菜刀都必须各自一把,跟合租一样。Grandpa Liu lived in the main bedroom, while Grandma Ma lived in the smaller room, and they had been living separately for over twenty years. They were very clear that everything in the house had to be divided equally between them, following a strict "split the bill" arrangement, even down to having separate kitchen knives, as if they were just roommates.

　　马奶奶说，他们生活一切都是“AA制”，彼此间已经不存在夫妻之实。Grandma Ma said that their entire life together operated on a "split the bill" basis, with no real sense of being a married couple left between them.

　　刘爷爷此前已经起诉过马奶奶离婚三次，但每次都以失败告终。这一次，马奶奶主动来法院起诉，坚决要和刘爷爷离婚。

　　她的要求很简单，就是要在房产证上加上自己的名字。毕竟这房子现在只有刘爷爷的名字，马奶奶担心离婚后被欺负。

　　刘爷爷也很想离婚，他说生活在马奶奶身边就像“噩梦般的生活”，非常痛苦。

　　他同意把房子卖了，卖房子的钱还可以多给马奶奶10万块钱。但是马奶奶的要求他就无法接受了，因为房子本来就是两人共同财产，根本不需要那么麻烦。

　　一时间，这对老夫妻又为房子的去留问题僵持不下。马奶奶坚持要先加名，刘爷爷则想先离婚再说。双方互不信任，生怕对方背信弃义。

　　承办此案的法官非常理解两位老人的心情，也能看出他们都迫切想要离婚的想法。于是法官耐心做两边工作，与两位老人一一沟通，帮助他们化解误会。

　　法官先后多次找刘爷爷当面聊，还通过电话联系，并约谈两人的代理律师。法官耐心听取两位老人的想法，再温和地给出自己的分析和建议。

　　法官告诉刘爷爷，既然他同意房子属共同财产，那就应该让马奶奶放心，尽快在房本上加上她的名字，这样马奶奶就可以安心离婚了。

　　法官还告诉马奶奶，既然刘爷爷已经认可房子的性质，而且马奶奶身体欠佳，不用亲自来法院，可以让代理人处理。

　　在法官的努力下，双方终于打开心结，达成共识。刘爷爷了解到，如果先离婚再加名，不但手续复杂，还需要承担更多过户费等额外费用。

　　所以，他同意先加名后离婚的方案，也取消了自己提出的上诉。

　　2020年7月，马奶奶和刘爷爷的诉求终于都得到满足，他们顺利签署了协议离婚。前后仅仅用了半个月时间，这对八旬老人终于结束了五十多年的婚姻，双方都感到无比欣慰与轻松。

　　令人没想到的是，平日里吵吵嚷嚷的两位老人，在离婚后倒成了最有默契的一对。他们约定俗成般准备了锦旗，不约而同地送到法院，以表达他们对法官的感激之情。

　　或许,我们常说的“白首不分离”不过是一种期许。当感情不再，生活无法为继时，选择分开也许才是给自己的解脱。

　　这对老夫妻用57年的青春岁月证明，婚姻终点并不一定就是“死”这个字。

　　正如法官在给这对老夫妻的寄语里所说：在任何时刻，追求幸福都是应该被支持的。婚姻固然重要，但终归不是人生的唯一，老年人也有权利去追求自己想要的生活。

　　这对白发老夫妻的故事也让人不禁想到，当代年轻人对婚姻的态度正在发生改变。以前，人们更看重“姻”字，现在“婚”字变得更重要。

　　比如，提到“AA制婚姻”，以前总是遭人非议，现在也有人选择接受这样的婚姻模式。AA制或许能带来经济上的平等，但并不一定代表感情的疏远。

　　每对夫妻都有自己的考量，年轻人在结婚时也需要理性看待，量力而行，选择一个双方都能接受的模式。这就像买鞋子，要找到真正合脚的一双。Each couple has their own considerations, and young people getting married also need to approach it rationally, within their means, and choose a model that both parties can accept. It's like buying shoes, you need to find a pair that truly fits.

　　当然，经济上的自主权并不意味着可以伤害感情。因为婚姻最核心的，还是相互尊重与体贴。Of course, having financial independence doesn't mean hurting feelings. Because the most crucial aspect of marriage is mutual respect and consideration.

　　夫妻之间,不应该因为钱的问题导致争吵。所以，在面对金钱时，理智很重要，但别忘记用心体贴才能获得幸福。Couples should not argue over money issues. Therefore, when facing financial matters, it's important to be rational, but don't forget that happiness comes from being thoughtful and considerate.

　　凡事皆有两面性。当代年轻人可以选择适合自己的婚姻模式，但也要学会互相理解、体贴和包容。Everything has its two sides. Modern young people can choose a marriage model that suits them, but they also need to learn to understand, be considerate, and be accommodating towards each other.

　　一味强调独立，也会使婚姻变得脆弱，夫妻感情需要双方共同培养，需要理解、信任和扶持。婚姻虽复杂但也可能简单，最终还是要回归那份甜蜜与深情。Emphasizing independence too much can make a marriage fragile. Marital relationships need to be nurtured by both parties, requiring understanding, trust, and support. Marriage may be complex, but it can also be simple, ultimately needing to return to that sweetness and deep affection.

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